What's for Me a Relationship Goal? (Pt 2)

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The first appreciation to which affection reveals kick starts the journey of any would-be lasting relationship. It doesn't just end in the two expressing a likeability that's primarily emotional. 


As important as the likeability of an emotional attraction creates, such must go down well to demand an understanding that's chiefly worked out by the mind's appreciation. 


The two individuals who suddenly have become emotionally wrapped up must do well to pass the next stage of ''inter-understanding'' -understanding who is and what's in the other- if indeed their camaraderie is something to take far and yonder. Thus the relationship must be sketched in the bricks rationality and coated with the nice and exciting colours of affection.


Contrary to a flings faultily termed relationships nowadays that has no bearing, no knowledge and understanding of what their engagement is other than the restricted idea of the moment as is the rampant cases, true relationship must be planned in deep conscious awareness of its journey.


In the end, a fairly triumphing relationship must be a commitment that is anchored on genuine love and deep understanding of who the next person is. After all, what's it in a partnership other than to walk through achieving a shared goal!


Endnote:


Me?...


Oh, right now, I'm not in a relationship. However, I'm keenly searching for that person that would radiate the above key components relevant to engineer the process that has an ultimate goal!

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