What's In a Relationship? (Pt 1)

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Today, I'll be talking about relationship- particularly the kind that exists between a male and a female who have found interest in themselves and are become ''loved up''. 


Isn't it a topic worth discussing, after all everyone is (or claim to be) in a relationship? Of course, it's been overrated that people want to fit in by seemingly being in supposed entanglements!


The goal of the kind of relationship in focus, just like every other associations, is to find a mutually benefitting result built chiefly by a commitment that's a function of deep understanding of both partners shared values.


But then, in adding to understanding, inna relationship that's a function of being ''loved up'' place of affection is necessary to lubricate this commitment.


In other words, the elemental factors that are key for a romantic relationship that seeks to grow into the future and thrive so well are understanding (of what's the vision of the parties in the relationship) and a shared emotional affection. 


And the two as vital as they are, must similarly work in an unshaken and indissoluble hand in glove pattern.


Whereas the factor of understanding opens up each partner to appreciating the core values and contributions that the other has to to bring to the table and as well, the differences each has a distinct individual, whose understanding is needed to drive the process in the bittersweet journey that it must be.


The lubrication of affection is needed to oil the wheel of the relationship and to help bring the two parties into a commitment that brings them to a wilful subjection to understanding themselves, their values, their visions, and difference to undertake the journey regardless of the hiccups that may come along.


Cont'd...


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